The purpose of a lingam massage is to honoring and pleasing the penis:
Laying on their back in a comfortable posture with their legs wide and knees bent, get the penis owner to relax. Remind them to take deep breaths throughout the activity.
As you inhale, send loving energy to them, and as you exhale, transmit arousal energy to them.
Start by lubricating and massaging their penis by sliding your hands up their thighs, pubic bone, and perineum.
Massage the testicles gently and softly. You can gently pull them, cup them in your hands to fondle them, or softly scratch them with your fingernails.
Vary your grip, stroke sequences, and twisting motions as you massage the shaft. Vary the number of hands used, from one to two, and from slow to quick.
Allowing them to reach a climax is a bad idea.
Keep them on the verge of orgasm, as it's termed.
Stimulate their sacred place, commonly known as the prostate, if they're comfortable.
Allow your companion to climax with an ejaculation orgasm when they're ready.